PPL say wen smbody rejects u...its tough to take it...handling rejection is not easy.but
"Is rejecting smone is easy???" i don knw bout othrs but for me rejecting sm1 is realy a tough thng..saying NO is vry tough..plz its not dat m a miss universe who rejects thousands evryday...but normaly i realy find it vry difficult...trust me!!!
lets not use d word "reject"..i don like dis word..who am i to reject nebody....who am i to tel othr prsn dat u r not gud enough for me..i don like saying direct no to neone(again its not dat m vry sweet)simply i don like hurting smone knwingly like ne normal prsn..so i generaly try to convince dat prsn ..dat u r at wrong place...ur choice is realy bad.. u r juss wasting ur time on useless prsn...dis n dat....but al dis generaly doesnt work...
& evrybody thinks dat i hv so much attitude,m making fun of dem,m not serious smwhr..n even dat m going around wid smone else.hehehe..its realy tough to convince dem..wel if dey think al dis..i don think its wrong frm dere side..i am ready to hear al dis..if othr prsn gets clear view.but again generaly evrythng becomes complex...n d result of it is i lost my frnds...
i think smwhr its difficult to talk,if dat prsn is saying no in a vry convincing way.... i don knw is dere ne othr way to say no,so dat othr prsn doesnt get hurt.But again its not possible...wen u say no smhwr u hurt d pthr prsn..wel i hardly remember wen i directly said no to neone....i think my convincing pwr is vry gud smhwr...hehehe...
wel but one thng i can say al of dem muss b thnkful to me smwhr bcos now dey al r vry happy wid dere g/f's....hehehe
jokes apart.....few thngs in lyf r realy tough but stil ...
kya karein?? achha nhi hai..phir bhi hum karte hain ..ya mein karti hun
life is ful of such tough words..realy!!!!!!!
October 17, 2008
"NO"
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90% of it went ovr my head..dis is sm kind of crap only girls cn handle..i heard probability, statistics, permutations evrything fails here..thx god m nt into it..
sm month back 1 f my teammate,ws ultimate frustated aftr breakup said "ladki saali Australian team hoti hai,frm 9:05 to 5:05 u r winning and at 6:00 u end up losing d match"...hehehe!!poor guys...i think girls kinda get pleasure frm playing mindgames..
no offences meant though mam.lolz..:))
regards.
sry for d offensive languaages..dose were his words nt mine..i do respect womanhood a lot..
hehehe..gud..its realy not ur cup of tea..nly gals can do al dis n can handle al dis...but stil not evry gal. ;)
n i knw guys think gals r dis n dat n in d same way gals too think guys r dis n dat..so..its a nvr ending topic
wel in dis post m juss talking bout d prsn who had rejected neone in his lyf...
ppl say handling rejection is difficult thng but saying no is also not so easy thng..its not dat alwaz gals or guys njoy al dis...
m talking bout d second prsn bcos generaly v show sympathy to d prsn whoz coping wid d rejection not wid d othr prsn...newaz..thngs r already vry complex..its better if i stop here....
yup now i gt it!!(actually hav d habit of understanding complex things only:P)..
ya maybe rejecting som1 is tough(seeing frm ur perspective)..bt d person who rejected wil smday find sm1 compatible whom he/she wantd or wants 2 be..n liv his/her life..bt d odar guy surely lost d person wid whom he/she wanted to be..forevr..life goes on though..bt d ting of loosing sm1 remains so..
silaence!!i cant beleive m thinkin al dis..i hav very little dimag to get into dese yr..pls spare me..
regards
d odr side of the coin...comes across thru ur writings a lot(as many as i read till nw)..u r really gud at it...:)
true.. sayin no ain't easy, but trust me one has to learn to say it, not necessarily in d context u cite, but in general.. else thgs can take a toll..
:)
regards..
@jess
thnxxxxxxx for it...:)
ya u truely said..in general v shld learn how to say NO.its not easy thng to do but smwhr its realy imp
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